They say you can't teach an old dog new tricks but we have 5 techiques that guarantee to help lift your game in the bedroom.
Ok, you've got a repertoie, one that has been built over years of trial and error. But tha's not to say you can't add a new club to the golf bag from time to time. It may well lift your game or least lower your handicap.
1. Stick to the shallows
The first thrid of vagina is the most sensitive. In other words deep isn't always meaningful. Modest incrusions into the land of pleasure will not only stimulate her big time but the relative lack of friction on your, um, part will ensure your fireworks don't go off before the end of the parade.
Never underestimate the power of reciprocation in the bedroom. If there's something you'd like her to do to you, do it to her first. And yes, I'm talking about going downtown - where you will be enthisiastic and deligent. You may also want to take a sip of champagne beforehand and let the bubbles do their thang.
3. Two inches is plenty
To quote John Cleese, "you don't need to charge at the clitoris like a bull at a gate". Boraden your focus by imaging a two-inch circle around her vagina. Consdier this no man's land and do not stray into it until she makes you. Concentrate on touching her lower stomach, upper thighs, hips with your figertips and/or tongue.
4. Left and right, round and round
Just because you're all about in and out, then repeat as needed, doesn't mean she is. Learn something from popular vibrators which have a side to side movement. If you need do slow things down for yourselft push your pelvis forward against hers to expert pressure on the clitoris. Then lift your hips slightly so that the tip of your penis is given a break from premature ejaculation inducing stimulation.
5. A helping hand
There's no shame in enlisting some aid in the bedroom and personal lubricants have, for want of a better term, come a long way. Durex's Play O Gel, $13.99 from chemistwarehouse.com.au, directs more blood flow to the clitoris with 79 per cent of women said they achieved argasm after using it. Incorporate it into your foreplay ritual by applying a dab wih your figertips for a few minutes before any other action occurs. Believe us when we tell you she won't think less of you for it, in fact just the opposite.